I hate them! the family…the food…the drama! who needs me.

my ex-husband thinks he can raise MY daughter better than i can. he would fold after one week with her. I dont think he has spent two weeks with her all by himself since she was born. I however have done nothing but that. he has disappeared for sometimes 2 months at a time. then when there is a problem he wants to charge in and bring his ideas to fix it. all he knows is my way sucks and is wrong…natch! he makes his little phone calls and screams and yells then when it is under control he will feel like he made it better.

but is he the one doing all the work every day? working 50 hours a week and then cleaning the house and doing the shopping, paying the bills and going through folders , agendas and backpacks everyday…sending emails to make sure your kid isn’t lying about turning in her shit. cause her father was unable to go sit in the cafeteria and eat a fucking donut with his kid on donut with dad day. My damn kid wont even tell her damn father that she wants to alternate years with her father and stepdad. she is afraid of how her father will take it!!! after all the times he has let her down and she is worried what it will do to him. he doesn’t deserve that kid!